Helping a rape survivor

[MikeW]

...Any help would be appreciated. ...

Are you in therapy or seeing a professional? You don't need to answer that publicly. Its just that we (meaning anyone in your position) need to be very careful here. As [MENTION=13210]Beaux[/MENTION] said, you can't "help" him. You can be there, perhaps. But it is equally important to help yourself. To understand your own motivations. I say this because I learned in my last relationship that it is possible for two people to love one another AND -- completely unintentionally -- re-injur one another.