08-10-2016, 04:21 PM
[MENTION=23180]axle2152[/MENTION], I think you are overthinking all of this. So, maybe you are bisexual, or maybe you are one of the people who need to feel in love with someone, no matter what their gender, to tick and start a relationship. Maybe it's not so much a gender or sexual thing as a connection thing.
The way to go about meeting people is generally to put yourself out there. Maybe you could try an online dating site, if you feel comfortable with that, then you can start the whole dating process. If not a dating site, joining a group of like-minded people over a hobby can be a good idea to make acquaintances. Join a car rallye group, or a flower arrangement group, or a dance class or a cookery club... (you name it).
Get to know a person gradually. I'm sure there are girls out there who would be more than glad to reform an 'old' gay man like you, haha. I know you're not old. Just thought I'd joke about how much gay experience you've had.
There are girls out there who probably would like to settle and who would love to have a man who is experienced in some way, who has some of the qualities that gays are known for and who is ready to commit. So probably the thing you'd have to deal with the most would be commitment.
Are you telling us that you think you are ready to commit?
Are there any family pressures on you to start a family, or is this just something that you've come to thinking on your own, as part of your personal development?
You'll also have to think hard about whether you think you would miss the gay sex (or relationships). It would be honourable to tell your future girlfriend / wife / female partner or companion about your past, so that she can fully understand what makes you tick, or what has made you tick. Probably, by discussing it with her, things will fall into place better and you'll both be able to see if this relationship is what will work for you. As for children, well, it should be a pretty simple affair, if you're both ready for them.
Good luck finding that special person. Mind you, there are also men who are looking to create a family with another man.
The way to go about meeting people is generally to put yourself out there. Maybe you could try an online dating site, if you feel comfortable with that, then you can start the whole dating process. If not a dating site, joining a group of like-minded people over a hobby can be a good idea to make acquaintances. Join a car rallye group, or a flower arrangement group, or a dance class or a cookery club... (you name it).
Get to know a person gradually. I'm sure there are girls out there who would be more than glad to reform an 'old' gay man like you, haha. I know you're not old. Just thought I'd joke about how much gay experience you've had.
There are girls out there who probably would like to settle and who would love to have a man who is experienced in some way, who has some of the qualities that gays are known for and who is ready to commit. So probably the thing you'd have to deal with the most would be commitment.
Are you telling us that you think you are ready to commit?
Are there any family pressures on you to start a family, or is this just something that you've come to thinking on your own, as part of your personal development?
You'll also have to think hard about whether you think you would miss the gay sex (or relationships). It would be honourable to tell your future girlfriend / wife / female partner or companion about your past, so that she can fully understand what makes you tick, or what has made you tick. Probably, by discussing it with her, things will fall into place better and you'll both be able to see if this relationship is what will work for you. As for children, well, it should be a pretty simple affair, if you're both ready for them.
Good luck finding that special person. Mind you, there are also men who are looking to create a family with another man.
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