Sexuality and Settling Down

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Bisexuality is no more a choice than any other orientation. Everyone chooses who they interact with. The choice is the person, not the orientation.

Introverts spend a lot of time thinking about what their social interactions and relationships will look like. A little bit of that is good, the rest is keeping you from social interactions that lead to dating. So get out there and interact with people in real life, avoid the ones who annoy you and spend time with the people who make you laugh and have fun. Put yourself out there as who you are and let others decide if they can deal with it or not. There are plenty of people who will date a bi guy with more experience with one gender.

In your area, getting on the apps every few months and being upfront that you are not looking for an immediate hookup could well lead to some meetings. You'll quickly learn who the regulars are that you want to avoid. Best not to spend a lot of time or money there, but checking in on occasion should certainly be considered as part of the game plan.

It's easier to figure this out with a real person than imagining stuff on your own.