Sexuality and Settling Down

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[MENTION=23180]axle2152[/MENTION], ok so now you're a bit older (and wiser?) you probably know what you're ready to compromise for and what you're not ready to take. That's the advantage of having a little bit of experience. Long distance relationships can work. They work when there is commitment on both sides, not too many demands on the other person's time if they haven't got it, and if you can manage your libido without having to count on 'extra-marital' affairs (unless you have an understanding with your partner, that that isn't the biggest issue in the couple).
I thought that since your social groups seem to be older, they might help you to settle somewhere else where they have a son or daughter who'd be ready to help, or employ you, or give you a start... You can always air the idea that you'd like to move. Someone might make things easier for you, if they know what you're looking for.