Sexuality and Settling Down

[Thundanton]

Finding someone compatible can be hard I agree, especially that I am also an introvert that refuses to lower his standards. It only made it worse that when I did once lower for someone, he turned out to be a compulsive obsessive maniac. Then I said never again. I also refuse to go to the big cities even though I have a chance to do so, but it's because I know what kind of people I'll find there. players, dishonest scoundrels and sex maniacs, so instead I am looking for somewhere in between. But the thing about me is that I have spent a long time alone, long enough to make me learn to enjoy my own company. I am very comfortable not being in a relationship, so I don't need to actively search for one. but I feel that this strength of mine might weaken as life goes on, so I still keep one eye open for that right person to step into my gaze.

my opinion, it doesn't really mater where you are, it's not really going to change the odds of finding the right person. I think that's determined by what point in time you are. someone can find love while not looking it, not wanting it or not needing it. love can be found in quite areas or in populated areas. by the seaside, in the city or country, just depends on when they are destined to find it. But of course we must exclude the extreme factors like when you are almost completely isolated from existence. that's just not gonna work no matter how.