08-10-2016, 10:59 PM
I'm not sure what advice to offer.
I've certainly been where you are,a "victim of circumstances", and I've been my own worse enemy. In my case, I searched for modelesque God's that were way out of my league. Like you, I grew up in smaller towns with limited resources. Also like you, I was extremely shy and introverted.
I've seen your pictures, read your posts, seen your photography, read your passions, intelligence, humor, ... you're an attractive guy with a lot of great qualities to offer someone smart enough to see them.
... but I don't think you'd be happy in the long term settling for a female, and I don't think you're putting yourself out there enough. Looking is one step, but so is letting yourself be found.
Tweak your comfort zones and take more chances.
I've certainly been where you are,a "victim of circumstances", and I've been my own worse enemy. In my case, I searched for modelesque God's that were way out of my league. Like you, I grew up in smaller towns with limited resources. Also like you, I was extremely shy and introverted.
I've seen your pictures, read your posts, seen your photography, read your passions, intelligence, humor, ... you're an attractive guy with a lot of great qualities to offer someone smart enough to see them.
... but I don't think you'd be happy in the long term settling for a female, and I don't think you're putting yourself out there enough. Looking is one step, but so is letting yourself be found.
Tweak your comfort zones and take more chances.