Sexuality and Settling Down

[LJay]

[MENTION=23180]axle2152[/MENTION], I am just agreeing with Camfer in general. Nothing ventured nothing gained, as the saying goes. I don't see from what you have written that you have taken on any risks that you shouldn't. You did the triathlon and came through very well. Pooped when it was over, but doing something like that brings on the best kind of tired. You have taken some risks with a few hikes on the Rim Trail. What seemed really good about those is that you gave it a good try and wisely retreated when things were not working well. Good job. In neither the hiking or the biking you have written about have you have gone into new things with preparation and common sense, but you have still taken risks. So continue the pattern. You have done well so far. I really woud not advise doing something like I did skiing down that snowy mountain. That was stupid but I was lucky enough to come out of it well and I learned. I imagine that [MENTION=20941]Camfer[/MENTION] would agree with me that you should keep on taking steps into the unknown so that you will gain confidence and gather new insights. Some risks, like moving, are bigger steps than others but I can tell you that if I had not moved to Boston with nothing but a trunk full of clothes and tools, I would have missed one of the best times of my life and I grew because of it. Please, [MENTION=20941]Camfer[/MENTION], feel free to step in and say so if I have said something dumb.