08-11-2016, 07:42 PM
My ex GF wasn't a mean spirited person either. She was simply messed up emotionally and that affected our relationship. I was the one who wanted to fix things between us. I wanted to be the knight in shinning armor that saved her and saved us but I found out the hard way that I couldn't and it was a very painful lesson!
Basically, this guy is controlling you. He's calling the shots! While he may not be malicious, he knows that he has you right where he wants you. My advice to you is to keep reminding him that he wanted this break and to stick to his decision or point blank, just ask him why he's texting you? If you are ok with just being friends and you can let go of your feelings for him, then it's fine to communicate with him but don't expect for him to run back into your arms! My ex GF misses me too. She texts and calls me. I have to keep telling her that she made her decision with me to not be together but she doesn't get it. She wants her cake and wants to eat it too! Doesn't work that way!
Basically, this guy is controlling you. He's calling the shots! While he may not be malicious, he knows that he has you right where he wants you. My advice to you is to keep reminding him that he wanted this break and to stick to his decision or point blank, just ask him why he's texting you? If you are ok with just being friends and you can let go of your feelings for him, then it's fine to communicate with him but don't expect for him to run back into your arms! My ex GF misses me too. She texts and calls me. I have to keep telling her that she made her decision with me to not be together but she doesn't get it. She wants her cake and wants to eat it too! Doesn't work that way!
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