01-17-2015, 09:27 PM
I just broke up with my girlfriend. I’m a lesbian, but my ex-girlfriend told me I’m Asexual. She told me she was Asexual too. Then the other night she did some things that made it quite clear she was not Asexual and then she ended up slapping me when I told her to stop touching me. I decided to break up with her just now and she got so mad at me. She started screaming that I would never be able to find anyone else who would put up with me and my weird aversion to sex. Then she smacked me and just kept hitting me over and over again. I elbowed her in the face and tried to get away but she just threw me on her bed and pinned me down and kept telling me that I was a freak and no one would ever want me and tons of other mean names. Then she started taking my clothes off and I just started crying. She started laughing and called me a cry baby and a tease. When she started to take off my jeans I was able to knee her in the stomach and hit her over the head with a lamp so she wouldn't come after me. Then I screamed at her telling her that she was the most horrible person ever. I feel kind of bad about that part but I just didn't know what else to do. I feel like what I did made me just as abusive as her. Oh my gosh it was so horrible! I don’t understand any of it! I don’t ever want to date anyone ever again!!! In any case, I have left a ton of my stuff over her house over the course of our relationship and I can’t go back there to get it, I just can’t. I don’t know how to get it back and I don’t know how to keep her away from me for good. I should have just gone over, taken my stuff home, then broken up with her via text I'm so stupid. My last boyfriend harassed me for four years after we broke up. That was awful too. But I threatened him with a restraining order and that seemed to do the trick. Should I do the same with her? I suppose I could tell my parents. I don’t know that my mom would believe me but I think my dad might. I don’t know what to do