I'm married

[InbetweenDreams]

I think question is whether it is lack of passion or lack of faculties (drunk, nutcase). I think either or can be true... So I think either men are either unbalanced already or in a moment are unbalanced... we are ever changing about how we feel about things, at least people who are tending to be uncertain about things. There are people who are certain and don't change, but I think we as people tend to be more impressionable. I think many guys can be persuaded to do things that they shouldn't do.. I mean a lot of people smoke knowing it is going to cause lung cancer....just keep on puffing away.

Men can't always control themselves, nor should they, actually. Life is not so simple as ''that guy is married, which means I can't touch his pelvic parts''. People do what they have to do. Men feel, men have hopes, and desires. It is not something one needs to justify. It's something that is.

If you ask me I think isn't a matter of can you, you could, you could have sex with a married guy. Maybe nothing ever comes of it. The question is should you, does your desires, dreams and hopes weigh more than possibly unraveling someone family. I mean if were a big flirt and flirted around a guy who's married, drunk and in the closet... I'm thinking more often than enough probably could end up sleeping with them.

It wasn't all to long ago we had that thread, which was removed I believe, who purposefully targeted men who had boyfriends (or allegedly so). The argument was that it takes two to cheat. While that's true, I do feel that in a lot of cases guys wouldn't be cheating if they didn't get drunk that night or was targeted by another guy as if they're a trophy. Then well, there are plenty of guys who seek to cheat too so...

So I see that passion in a lot cases simply isn't there to begin with and other times it just complicated, as much as we want to say things are black and white, they aren't. People can get stuck in some rotten situations. Which renders them no passion and no faculties.