08-16-2016, 10:08 PM
(Edited 08-16-2016, 10:13 PM by meridannight.)
No. He is responsible for his own actions. In practice, even if you influenced him, if he ended a relationship on another's advice then he wasn't much suited for a relationship to begin with. Grown men are capable of making up their own mind and they do what they have to do.
From my experience, no external advice, no matter how sane/good, is going to make a guy do something he does not want to do, or deter him from doing something he genuinely wants to do.
For the record, though, it is not yours to say that doubts another man is feeling are ''not a good sign''. Relationships can be rocky, and difficult. A man can doubt, and not be sure, but it's not a sign that he should get out of it. Only he knows whether that's something to pause over or not. It is impossible for you to make that judgment unless you are very familiar with both, him and his lover. And even then...
From my experience, no external advice, no matter how sane/good, is going to make a guy do something he does not want to do, or deter him from doing something he genuinely wants to do.
For the record, though, it is not yours to say that doubts another man is feeling are ''not a good sign''. Relationships can be rocky, and difficult. A man can doubt, and not be sure, but it's not a sign that he should get out of it. Only he knows whether that's something to pause over or not. It is impossible for you to make that judgment unless you are very familiar with both, him and his lover. And even then...
''Do I look civilized to you?''