Boyfriend wants threesum?

[Justaguy]

Hey Jonathan, I'm afraid I can't tell you much about how threesomes affect monogamus relationships, so I'll let someone else advise you there. As for your relationship it sounds like your boyfriend isn't pressuring you or giving you an ultimatum. In fact I'd say it was a testament to how well your relationship is going that he respects you enough to be honest about something like that. Should you consider it? Well it sounds like you already have and that you need more time in the relationship, which is a good attitude. He's already told you that he respects you if you say no so you can't really go wrong, tell him that you'd rather discuss it in a few years when you both feel more secure in the relationship, and just be honest with him the way he has with you.