Being Gay

[East]

I think I understand.

In your experience do you think gay men are more able to explore both energies? Maybe directly because of being gay or that being gay in some way releases us from certain social expectations (or places different ones on us). Or do think it's something you see pretty evenly across gender and sexuality, based on your own experiences?

Good question...

I believe in the journey of the soul and I find that mature and older souls in general are alot more fluid.....and it crosses all sexual identify boundaries....

In some ways..gay men can be less likely to embrace this as they often have had to face alot of horrible family and life experiences that consume them and often it swings the other way where traditional sexual roles are challenged and paraded around...and that also serves a purpose and it is quite necessary....drag queens for instance...I love them..but they are rarely truly female in nature...more like 80% masculine and 20% feminine....

I worked with a DQ for years who would go off on her tangents and on the surface I "appear" masculine.....and I am...but I love my feminine side...and he announced he was more of a man than I am and more of a women than I would ever be.,....

...and so I grabbed his arm and asked the guys at the bar which of us was more female...and they said I was....in unison...and he looked bewildered until I told him that I NURTURED THEM...and he was basically a nasty bitch with bad makeup and a shitty wig..and I didn't need makeup and a dress or become a parody of a female in order to nurture them.