I think my wanting to see a man naked has made me gay

[TwisttheLeaf]

Being straight is not a psychological condition.
Being gay is not a psychological condition.

Being straight is not a decision.
Being gay is not a decision.

I'm sorry, but nothing "made me" be attracted to men.

I saw plenty of naked men growing up. My father was used to public baths all his life, and thus seeing men naked wasn't considered abnormal and happened.

I saw plenty of naked women growing up. I have a twin sister. We shared the same bedroom, the same bathroom, the same bed until I moved out at 16 years old.

I had a strong male figure in my life. Hell, I had a strong male figure in my life that was extremely and abjectly disapproving of same sex attraction.

I'm still attracted to men.

My advice to you is to stop hating your preferences and find a way to make peace with and enjoy them. Be proud of who you are, ALL that you are, as you are. Self improvement doesn't mean turning yourself into someone else or destroying your natural urges.