09-12-2016, 11:17 AM
Interesting questions for an insomniac like myself.
In my experience, it's the older guy that approaches. That's not to say they instigate, only that they appoach. I did a lot of instigating when I was single, but in the end, I left it up to them to come to me whenever it was someone older.
Same as above? I dunno where I fit on that spectrum. I instigate, they approach. I figure by instigating, that I've shown my interest and the ball is then in their court. If, on the other hand THEY instigated, I would approach if I was interested.
This was never a factor for me unless I was looking to get paid for something.
Addition: Dominant or submissive...
I DO see people in this aspect, always have even before getting into D/s with Gideon. Some people have dominant personalities, others are more submissive and/or shy. If I notice (or sense in some way) that the person I was interested in is more dominant than I am, I will instigate but required them to approach. On the other hand, if I sensed the person of interest was shy or less dominant than myself, I had no problem putting forth the extra effort to make sure they knew I was interested.
Sorry for typos. I might be an insomniac, but I refuse to get off the bed and go to the laptop.
Quote:The younger or the older....
In my experience, it's the older guy that approaches. That's not to say they instigate, only that they appoach. I did a lot of instigating when I was single, but in the end, I left it up to them to come to me whenever it was someone older.
Quote:The average guy or the "model" guy...
Same as above? I dunno where I fit on that spectrum. I instigate, they approach. I figure by instigating, that I've shown my interest and the ball is then in their court. If, on the other hand THEY instigated, I would approach if I was interested.
Quote:The richer or the poorer...
This was never a factor for me unless I was looking to get paid for something.
Addition: Dominant or submissive...
I DO see people in this aspect, always have even before getting into D/s with Gideon. Some people have dominant personalities, others are more submissive and/or shy. If I notice (or sense in some way) that the person I was interested in is more dominant than I am, I will instigate but required them to approach. On the other hand, if I sensed the person of interest was shy or less dominant than myself, I had no problem putting forth the extra effort to make sure they knew I was interested.
Sorry for typos. I might be an insomniac, but I refuse to get off the bed and go to the laptop.
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