09-12-2016, 03:17 PM
The person who can overcome their fear of rejection is generally the first person to "make a move."
It's easy to fake self-confidence on social apps. When I was still on them, I usually opened with "Hey, how's it going?" and waited to see where it went.
IRL - there were a couple of guys I hit on, but it took all my courage and a fair amount of alcohol to loosen up enough to approach them. Usually, bought them a drink from across the bar first to break the ice.
It's easy to fake self-confidence on social apps. When I was still on them, I usually opened with "Hey, how's it going?" and waited to see where it went.
IRL - there were a couple of guys I hit on, but it took all my courage and a fair amount of alcohol to loosen up enough to approach them. Usually, bought them a drink from across the bar first to break the ice.
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