09-12-2016, 06:47 PM
kindy64 Wrote:The person who can overcome their fear of rejection is generally the first person to "make a move.
I dunno about this one. I've never really had a very strong fear of rejection.
But, maybe that's why I differentiate between "instigating" and "approaching". When I was single, I instigated a lot. Smiles and grins. Looks and glances. A suggestively raised eyebrow. Those sort of things. But a good portion of the time it ended there unless they then took the initiative to approach. (The exception being those that I clearly sensed were shy/submissive, in ehich case I looked for signs of continued interest and would approach.)