Differences in guys: Who's supposed to make the first step?

[kindy64]

Main point was more that I don't think there are any general guidelines on who should approach another.

There aren't any conventions in the straight dating world, at least now a days. Way back when, it was assumed the guy would always ask the girl out, but there were always "liberated" women who would defy convention.

If you want to go out with someone, ASK. Better than sitting there wondering if they're going to get the hint that you're flirting with them (guys can be super dense with that.)