Differences in guys: Who's supposed to make the first step?

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[MENTION=21405]meridannight[/MENTION] I completely agree. It is situational as well as in the -HOW- of the flirt/tease. I only see it as "teasing" if there's no reward at the end. In my case, that wasn't the case. I only flirted if there was genuine interest.

I must be VERY clear in my techniques, though, as I rarely had an issue with getting the response I was aiming for.

I see what you say about the "I never saw much point in playing around rather than getting straight to the point." In my case? I enjoy it. It's like.... foreplay. A precursor "getting to know you" moment type of thing.

That said? Friends back then also found it highly amusing that at times I would just walk up to someone and open with "Hey. (insert eye contact and a wide grin) Wanna fuck?" So, I guess you could say that in my case, I did a lot of "mixing things up" depending on how I felt in the moment.