09-17-2016, 07:19 PM
IanSaysHi Wrote:I had this situation recently:A bit of a direct question but not a ridiculous one... maybe he didn't see any point in dating someone who wouldn't be a pencil sharpener to his pencil, or vice versa, even after all those dates. It's a jungle out there. If he'd been a clever person he'd have said: ''btw I'm a bottom (or I'm a top).'' so you wouldn't waste your time either if this was an important consideration.
Me: I'm a little tired of one nighters and rushing into things with a guy after one date.
Him: That's COMPLETELY how I feel too. I just want to go on a few dates, get to know someone first...
Me: Yessss! Me too!
Him: Cool Btw are you top or bottom
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