How to deal with fear of loosing your loved one ??

[kindy64]

I am like this in so many ways. I'm 52, fiance is 21. He's sexy gorgeous, I have low self-esteem (even though guys say I'm handsome often enough.)

FUD factor X 10 (fear uncertainty doubt) I think it's natural to have some FUD about relationships no matter how long you are in it. When it starts affecting your relationship is when it becomes a problem.

Mostly it comes down to trusting your partner, and communication. He tells me where he's going, I trust that he's not cheating on me or looking for something better. I don't smother him, or try to keep tabs on him minute by minute. Listening to issues he's had in the past with other boyfriends informed me on how he didn't want me acting. Not being constantly glued to his hip. Not constantly checking up on him.