Dating women

[InbetweenDreams]

hmmm my track record with men isnt great (sleeping about) but I haven't done anything like that in 2 years now, I just would like to get a chance at making a relationship with a women once before I get too old.

Well there is the other thing, I'm getting scared of the idea that I'm going to be one of them old men that is all alone and no family etc around them.

I am in a similar boat. I want to look for a serious relationship and there are two things that happen. Either the guy I'm dating really wants to fuck but slap the bf label on, or a guy who is too smart to get wrapped up in a relationship (Which makes total sense I'll add)

It has been very difficult to find a guy, or anyone regardless of gender who is at a similar point in their life and is genuinely awesome. I can find sub par guys all the time, it just doesn't do me anything. While I am horny just like the next guy and I suppose if I had no conscience I would screw anything that walks, but that doesn't interest me. I want to be happy in a relationship with someone who I just click with and I am finding that it really does need to start with friendship. I'm friends with a couple who don't have sex...not sure what they do to make up for it, but they're good friends of mine and seem happy together. I once told them that I wished I could have something like what they have, they appreciated me saying that too. Although I will say they're probably not the typical couple.

I would like to have kids but I am not totally set on it and if I find the right guy or right girl I suppose I would be equally happy either way. If it ends up a guy I'm happy to adopt, plenty of kids who need good homes.

You know what, I'm having the opposed situation, usually woman finds me attractive but I think gay guys don't like me at all and the funny things is that I don't like women!... I think it's karma :confused:

Why do you think gay guys don't like you? It's a shame you're in the UK, I will say that!