10-12-2016, 11:38 PM
LJay Wrote:End the relationship. No discussion. No bargaining. No compromising.
Do exactly as he is doing. Take a stance and stick to it.
There is no reason that you should subject yourself to continuous stress over this issue. He is not going to alter his behavior and you should face that.
In ending the relationship you do not need to attempt to resolve any question of who is in the right or who is in the wrong. You simply have different views and they are irreconcilable.
It is sad that you must lose each other, but there really is no other way to handle it.
Not sure I agree completely with you there, at least not yet. I do think the odds for success are slim but if we all just gave up at the first bit of trouble I think everyone would just be single. Not saying he should have to compromise but I think things can be addressed and can be dealt with in a positive manner without fighting and move on. It's food, it is both a major thing but also a minor thing. Me... I can eat whatever, I can go from Vegan to sushi to anything that ends with wurst but not everyone is flexible like that so just a matter of whether they can meet in the middle or not.
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