How do you flirt with a guy?

[kindy64]

That's not a bad approach at all. You're showing interest but not being pushy or obnoxious.

I would be much more comfortable responding to that approach than to assholes in clubs who start in with all the sexual shit. Some guy I've never seen before looking at me like I'm the Saturday night special at the steakhouse and saying, "Oh, man, I would LOVE to do you" is NOT a turn on.

I always figured the worst way to approach someone is being desperate for sex...

I've never been all that promiscuous, so the direct approach would never have appealed. I've always wanted dates, companionship, to go along with sex. So, I want to get to know you before we get to that.

When I was hooking up on grindr it was always, "hi, how's it going?" as a starter. Or, if I thought they were cute or sexy, "hey sexy, how's it going?"