How do you flirt with a guy?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Might as well ask how do you breath without inhaling.

Flirting IS obvious to most people. I am obtuse with the whole flirt situation. I require club over head and being dragged back to the cave. Then I still don't know what it all means.

So "obvious" here has to be weighed against the experience and understanding of the person you are addressing.

Flirting comes naturally if there is a real attraction for most men. Its unnatural and obvious to men when there is not an attraction there.

Besides why be "not obvious" in your flirting? Fraid you will be killed? Society frows? Parents won't be happy - these are rhetorical questions, ones you need to ask yourself then follow up with the idea that dating and a relationship with another man are going to get more heat. If you are not ready to face persecution perhaps the whole flirting and dating and pursuit of a man isn't going to be a good thing.