How do you flirt with a guy?

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[MENTION=12444]Bowyn Aerrow[/MENTION] Is that directed at me? Why am I nervous flirting with guys? Why am I oblivious to people (men & women) flirting with me?

In short I don't really know. I am generally an anxious person and I'm normally not flirted with. Perhaps a fear of rejection has something to do with it? Hmm, not sure... To be honest I'm not all that worried about flirting. Everyone has their own ways of flirting, or engaging guys... I suppose I have my own way of doing things. I have had things go where things feel natural and "click" and other like you say pretty obvious that there is simply no chemistry.

Almost every time that I have later on realized someone was flirting with me was in a condition where I was either working, or having to concentrate on something else. Perhaps that is a possibility why I oblivious to it, or perhaps that goes back to things not being "natural"

Have I successfully flirted with guys, yeah you bet...but I was comfortable in my skin when I did...just offhandedly flirting with a random guy not a very common occurrence, just has to be a certain amount of comfort doing so...in the wild not very common...

So I suppose when I say "I don't know how to flirt" I am really saying "I don't know how to flirt with guys I am literally just now meeting." Not saying it is impossible, but I think it comes with the anxiety of meeting someone for the first time and not being too risky by trying to be "cute" if that makes any sense.