How do you flirt with a guy?

[kindy64]

I contemplate things in my head a lot, thinking about what I should or should not do...really just turns into worrying and usually I find in my experience that what I think will happen based on an action usually isn't the case. Sometimes I'm right, I find that I am wrong most often on things dealing with love, relationships and guys...

Now if you got a computer problem...call me the computer whisperer lol

I'm talking more, big picture kind of things as far as thinking ahead. You don't KNOW anything until the moment what might happen. It's more about thinking about how to conform your actions and behavior to your internal image of who you want to be.

Like being truthful. I might not disclose everything to my partner, but I never lie. When he confronts me about something, I'm up front about it, or I don't want to talk about it right now. But, I don't lie about it.

You are out walking the dog, you see a neighbor in an argument with someone. The someone leaves, the neighbor gets in their car and is on their cell phone. You walk behind the car and notice cash on the ground. It is several hundred dollars. You can really use the cash. Wasn't even more than a glancing thought not to give the gal her money. It's about being honest.

To thine own self be true...

Back on topic, people who are acting, versus people who are genuine. It's one thing to be nervous and awkward, trying to maintain some semblance of courage trying to interact with someone. Another to try to be someone you are not.