How do you flirt with a guy?

[JCasey]

Another flirting example...

At my insurance agent's office, there is a young guy who is gorgeous. Yes he is too young (early 20s) and he has a girlfriend, but he sets off the gaydar SO hard. On my last visit, he was wearing a bright pink shirt with a blue collar. I complimented him on the shirt and asked where he bought it. He told me and I replied that while I don't have a pink shirt, I do have a bright ube colored polo. He asked what color bright ube was and began looking it up on the internet. We discussed it for a while and then went back to dealing with my insurance coverage.

If he had been gay, my age range and interested in me, that interaction would have done a few things.
1. Conveyed my sexuality
2. Showed interest in him
3. Given him an opportunity to show interest back
4. Provided an opportunity to recommend shopping together.

But since he was too young for me and obviously not interested in someone who is older than his father, it provided support for him being who he is and confidence that he looks good in the clothes he chooses.

BTW: My cousin works in the cubicle next to him and heard this discussion. I have spoken to her in the past about his amazing blue eyes, but she knows I am not flirting with intent.