11-04-2016, 01:54 PM
I think the main thing is, don't get all hung up on one particular guy when it's just texting.
I was texting a guy for like 3 months, hot and heavy, had pet names for each other, really seemed to have a connection. When it came time to meet, he ghosted on me. He didn't like that I was still going out and seeing other guys. Thought I was clear when I told him up front I wasn't going to be exclusive with someone I hadn't even met yet.
Of course, then I fall into a relationship with my now fiance. Broke all the rules I was setting myself up for, he was young, life filled with drama, and we went exclusive immediately. Now we are engaged, and our relationship is very strong.
I was texting a guy for like 3 months, hot and heavy, had pet names for each other, really seemed to have a connection. When it came time to meet, he ghosted on me. He didn't like that I was still going out and seeing other guys. Thought I was clear when I told him up front I wasn't going to be exclusive with someone I hadn't even met yet.
Of course, then I fall into a relationship with my now fiance. Broke all the rules I was setting myself up for, he was young, life filled with drama, and we went exclusive immediately. Now we are engaged, and our relationship is very strong.
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