11-10-2016, 02:43 PM
Gemini Wrote:When I dated that guy who'd lost part of his leg, I had to learn to NOT rush in to help unless he asked for help.
That would be my problem. In really in any relationship... I think I offer to help too often. It seems to get on most people's nerves trying to offer to help or do things for someone. Make sense because I don't expect or want someone to... I don't know, do my laundry out of the blue or feel that they have to buy everything for me and that sort of thing... Yet I find myself doing and offerings things to people I wouldn't like... not that I am like most other people but most people do want to feel dependent on others.
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