Would you date a Disabled person.

[artyboy]

If you should feel an urge to do my laundry, I'll be VERY appreciative lol.

But I get what you're saying. I think that sometimes if you're trying to too much for people, they get almost defensive because they think you're implying that they can't manage on their own or can't do it as good as you do. The guy I was talking about got really pissed, and I get it - he went from being this macho, can-do marine to a guy people think they have to take care of.

As for feeling dependent on others. I don't want to have to depend on others to pay my way or do manage my life and activities. It would be nice to have a guy I could depend on for moral support, to be there when I DO need someone etc. I mean, I get that you can't depend on others for your happiness and stuff, but it would be nice to be able to depend on someone to always have my back.

I hate people running over to me and helping me things, like when people hold doors for ever for me or asking if I'm okay when I'm pulling my self out of a chair, or the one that really pisses me off is when I'm in my wheelchair and someone decides I need a push without asking me first. Ffs how would you like someone to come up to you and grabbed your wrist and started to pull you about and you don't even know the person.