Would you date a Disabled person.

[InbetweenDreams]

Yep the good ol "no fats, no fems and no old people"

See everyone expects someone to just pop out of a chip n dale's magazine and it just isn't like that. I mean I have my guidelines for what I find attractive and I'm not ashamed to not be attracted to certain types of people and define fat... I mean over here I get told that I'm both hot af and fat at the same time...I'm usually told I'm fat by guys who are 120 lbs and 6ft 4in and think that's the way everyone should be.

As far as disabilities, see here it's no longer about looks, it is a case by case basis, depends on what we're talking about. Are we talking about someone who needs a cane every now and then, has days where they're sick and can't work or get out of bed or what? See I think people want to say they're willing to have a relationship with someone who has a disability simply because we're morally wired to say those sorts of things. On the other hand I do think there are a lot of exceptions to the rule but what I see is that people are way too judgmental, if there's a flaw of any kind "Oh they're not the one for me!" I have my issues, most would say that I'm fat or something along those lines...or if I mention the hell I have been through dealing with my teeth or the doctor, my anxiety problems and so on... Those are just the ones I just worry about, who knows what other people see on the outside and is it even worth my time to worry about.

Anyway, the point I want to drive home about this thread is that most of you will say you would date someone with a disability, whatever that is being up for debate, but when it comes down to it you won't...and I am aiming that at the younger crowd mostly. I think older people realize that people do end up with disabilities, we age and all at one point end up with health problems but the guys in their 20's think there is something wrong with dating someone that say has gum disease, after all they just go online and see what good has to say, basically says my mouth is rotten and my teeth are going to fall out...even though that is far from the case. Intentional or not when I was told that I'm thinking how do I go about fixing my mouth because no amount of brushing and flossing is going to fix the years my dad refused to take me to the dentist. Or what about the weight, if only I didn't have all those pieces of cheesecake last week I might have been 1lb lighter and closer to my goal.

Anyway, we're hurtful to people in reality, but angels via text....