Would you date a Disabled person.

[InbetweenDreams]

I think you have much point in that. I'm really wondering what makes us that way. Once I talked to a disabled person, it didnt work (not because of his disability).

but my weak point is that I care about appearance (face beauty). I dont even know how to feel about this, guilty or accepting myself as I am. It's not something that I choose to be. Of course, personality is the most important, but even when we buy a chocolate, we first check the cover (I'm not saying that's the right thing). So we sometimes cannot help it. I'm easily attached to some guys than others too. But I wish we could be totally isolated with appearances and just look at personality.

My guess it is human nature to belong to a group of some sort. We're judgemental by nature, for good or the bad... If you ask me the whole thing about liking someone for their personality is only half true, if you're not attracted to them sexually, chances are, probably not going to turn into a relationship...

Oh and I can read what you posted in my email when you quote me but since your post is held in moderation for having less than 50 posts it doesn't appear here...well other than my quoting you.