Would you date a Disabled person.

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[MENTION=22821]NativeSon[/MENTION] What am I to say? It's okay to be a dick? The point I'm making is that most people would say they would outright date someone with a disability, whether that is someone with autism, has cancer, whatever... Meaning that is their default go to response when the question comes up. At least that's how I perceive people to be, kind of like the issue on race... When the question comes up with white people, immediately the response is "I'm not racist" then later on making jokes and so on.

Now when people lie intentionally, such as the case of letting someone off easy because hmm I don't know didn't realize they were that fat or went home and googled about a disease or disability they have then go cold as ice well that's the stuff that is interesting. So when is it a bad thing? Or is it bad to let someone off easy to start with? It would seem that bullshitting someone in order to distance yourself from them is frowned upon?

Are you saying people lie in order to let others down easy or that you're easing the blow of an unpleasant truth that I may not be aware of?

I'm saying people lie for anything. Digging into what I said there is more along the lines of I'm not sure how I feel about you or maybe they were wanting something else and didn't want to admit it... Like maybe someone was after sex and tried to get there by means of dating someone and when they didn't put out on the 2nd date pull the plug. Not saying every guy is terrible but I think most of us aren't the big ball of sunshine we make ourselves out to be.

Now [MENTION=22821]NativeSon[/MENTION] your turn... quid pro quo tell me what you think about this topic...