03-23-2017, 07:03 PM
I remember an old topic like this, at that time I was like "yes, why not?", today I'm not sure about it.
I would like to say yes, but I also must admit I've got weaknesses.
First of all I think there's disability and disability, for example I don't think I'd like to date a person with a mental or other serious disability, cause I have personal reasons to say that I would be too much sorry for him/her, if not even guilty and this would not lead to anything good, for both of us. Maybe I'm just too much pessimist.
Second, I would not like to be a caretaker, I'm done with this kind of bonds, I don't want someone who I must look for. But as you say, not everyone is looking for a carer.
On the opposite side, if the person, for example the person is independent etc, I can spend myself for her/him, I could even feel proud of him/her, like "look at her, she's so strong, I love her and she's also an inspiration to me, etc."
Or maybe not, but I can deal with some kind of problem, cause I have problem and flaws myself, I'm not perfect.
Also the personality is really important, so if I'm really into him I would not care about a disability, maybe not at all.
I also think that I wouldn't have any problem dating someone with a minor disability.
I would like to say yes, but I also must admit I've got weaknesses.
First of all I think there's disability and disability, for example I don't think I'd like to date a person with a mental or other serious disability, cause I have personal reasons to say that I would be too much sorry for him/her, if not even guilty and this would not lead to anything good, for both of us. Maybe I'm just too much pessimist.
Second, I would not like to be a caretaker, I'm done with this kind of bonds, I don't want someone who I must look for. But as you say, not everyone is looking for a carer.
On the opposite side, if the person, for example the person is independent etc, I can spend myself for her/him, I could even feel proud of him/her, like "look at her, she's so strong, I love her and she's also an inspiration to me, etc."
Or maybe not, but I can deal with some kind of problem, cause I have problem and flaws myself, I'm not perfect.
Also the personality is really important, so if I'm really into him I would not care about a disability, maybe not at all.
I also think that I wouldn't have any problem dating someone with a minor disability.