things you find sexy ..

[InbetweenDreams]

Well.... there is the physical....

I seem to prefer dark hair, brown, black... not that blonde is bad just idk, something about black hair...

I seem to go either way with length, some guys look gorgeous with long hair, some are like wtf...

Eyes...eyebrow, again not sure what it is but perhaps a combonation of expression...blue, hazel, dark brown I can't say I have a preference.

Smiles a lot. I hate resting bitch face that some guys have. I mean if you like someone show it... Facial expressions are loud unspoken voice.

Body... This is where I feel I differ a lot from many guys. Like the "Nice Butt" thread. I don't find a lot of those guys all that attractive. Not saying I don't like asses I do but I guess I like normal, but still perky lol. I am seldom attracted to super muscular, but also not skinny as a rail either. I like to have a little bit to cuddle with and prefer less hairy. I am often the big spoon so I do prefer guys who are a bit smaller, shorter than I am. Weight is not that much of an issue unless we're talking about health and them disregarding it completely. Legs, I love legs...

Now that all being said, the physical is nice and it does matter but in the end we're all going to get fat and wrinkly, the good sexy looks are temporary.

Personality...personality...personality lol

I think good vibes which seem to be a combination of body language and just how someone comes off. I really like it when someone shows that they have a good heart and are kind, it is more rare than you might think to come across someone who is passionate. Self-confidence, random acts of kindness.

This is probably a generalization and probably just as silly as thinking a relationship is going to be some kind of paradise. I don't know exactly what it is but there are just some people who I think just light up a room, there's some kind of charisma about them and it becomes apparent to me quickly. Very few people I get that feeling about, it is probably just me. However, picturing someone who gives off that kind of glow makes me want to be a better person, it is a liberating feeling. That's why I hate being single, I know I am missing out. The sacrifice of being in a relationship to me is well worth it to be loved and to feel that you're able to return the wonderful feeling of being loved. At that point it goes beyond being sexy, you pay less attention to their flaws, we all have them, insecurities and fears yes we all have those and frankly we're all irrational as hell. It matters less when that person starts going bald or starts getting a few wrinkles.

I guess that's how I feel about all of that, don't get me wrong... I'd love to find someone to shag right now but it's just difficult for me to get around something that is empty...there's also trust issues.

Anyway, getting off topic and a bit emotional as well and probably not a good time for that.