Im not sure if its ok to get a girlfriend

[TwisttheLeaf]

How would you feel if you met a great guy, started seeing him, dating, etc, then after some time have him declare to you he is straight and was just ''checking'' or experimenting with you?

If you do go that route, would you feel good about being that guy later on in life? This is the kind of thing you have to be able look yourself in the mirror for afterwards. It might not seem like a big deal right now, but you are your actions in this life. And this action would have no positive light to it. It would not spring from confusion or uncertainty, it would be a pure act of deception and lie caused by fear of others' opinion. Does that sound good to you?

Your life is about you, not about other people. If you let other people make your life for you, you have none that is yours. You should live in a way that is compatible with who you are, and live it with integrity, according to your own worldview and standards. It won't be a walk in the park, even like that, but this is the only way you can look yourself in the eye later on and know you stayed true to who you are, and lived it genuinely. Later on, that will matter a lot.

I get what your saying but its complicated.

Its not complicated.

You choose to hurt someone, or not hurt someone.
You choose to lie, or be honest.
You choose to potentially destroy someone's life, confidence in themselves and others, and perception of themselves and the world.... or you don't.

It's remarkably easy, and not at all complicated.

It's called "don't be a dick".
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