11-18-2016, 10:01 AM
I think there's something you haven't considered. Dating a women now is not going to be like dating those girls four years ago.
Those mousey girls you used to date weren't expecting commitment because they were only 23 and relationships at that age are frequently about fun and friendship.
But at 27 most girls are gonna have one eye on a wedding ring and kids; especially from a Catholic man like yourself. The unspoken assumption will be that if you get along and love each other well enough you'll eventually get married and start a family together.
Since you can't provide that for them it's extremely unfair to take up their time when they could be searching for a man they can build a family with.
Those mousey girls you used to date weren't expecting commitment because they were only 23 and relationships at that age are frequently about fun and friendship.
But at 27 most girls are gonna have one eye on a wedding ring and kids; especially from a Catholic man like yourself. The unspoken assumption will be that if you get along and love each other well enough you'll eventually get married and start a family together.
Since you can't provide that for them it's extremely unfair to take up their time when they could be searching for a man they can build a family with.