11-19-2016, 06:24 PM
The question is not whether you are gay or bi, but whether you will be honest about it. Having sex with a woman does not mean you are straight and having sex with a guy doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. But you owe it to yourself and any future relationships to know yourself, then to accept yourself.
You said the sex with women was ok. Was the sex with guys only ok, too?
You see being gay as a shameful thing, but we are trying to show you that lying to a girl just so you can appear normal and not lose face with your friends and family and even strangers is the real shame.
If all the external judgments you feel would come from others was removed from the picture and you were free to be yourself, what and who would you choose?
You said the sex with women was ok. Was the sex with guys only ok, too?
You see being gay as a shameful thing, but we are trying to show you that lying to a girl just so you can appear normal and not lose face with your friends and family and even strangers is the real shame.
If all the external judgments you feel would come from others was removed from the picture and you were free to be yourself, what and who would you choose?
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