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[InbetweenDreams]

Gaysir.

And about the thread.
Most people could actually date a disability person.

That's very much true...

I will say, which kind of relates on many other things. It does seem that us gay guys, I can't really speak for women, are quite picky and judgmental. No fems, no fats, masc only...got guys who don't want to date over race, religion...too tall , too short...too hairy, too old or too young... Oh got health problems? Why don't you take better care of yourself!

I guess in my particular case I'm a fatty for most guys, oh and now that I'm 30...too old. I mean the guys who are on grindr, at least around here are the worst offenders of being judgmental and it's the same with POF or whatever.

That's why I really hate putting myself out there. If I give away everything that is "wrong" with me then yeah gives people less reason to strike up a conversation. But if you get someone engaged and is actually interested in you then things like my weight don't matter that much unless they're that shallow.

All I can say, I'm 30 and also single and also seldom I get anyone who actually wants to date.. I have got a lot of "oh work called and money takes precedence" or the classic no shows and shit. A bunch of twats I say...

Bottom line is don't let some rotten shit get you down because they see the word "disability," imo your disability is hardly an excuse for someone to not want to date you. I mean if they find you to be a prick or whatever then fine, but not over that.