06-04-2009, 04:30 PM
Hi Guys - I've been a relationship for just over 2 years with a great guy. We have a blast together. He is successful, caring, funny, friendly, and very handsome, a total 10, well almost. For a long time I felt as though we would definitely marry some day, but lately I'm doubting our relationship and I hate how I am feeling.... He's my problem. We haven't had sex in almost a year! I have tried almost everything. I just don't know what to do. I have talked with him, he said its work/stress, and he's just in a weird place. I know he sawed his oats when younger, but so have I. He just turned 40. He's totally the the type of guy you would see dancing on a box in a club. Together we get lots of looks..so hotness on my part isn't the problem. Neither of us are into threesomes or venturing out in our relationship.. in fact it makes me sick to think of him being with someone else. I am a late bloomer and came out 6 years ago after ending a long term marriage (female).. which of course there was absolutely no sex there. I am a very passionate sexual romantic guy and this is killing me. If anyone could offer me some advice I would greatly appreciate it. - - THANK YOU!!!