Hi all, I need to say things i cannot say in real life

[Zen]

WOAH.

Only one week ago you needed advice because of the arguing and now it's all great and wonderful and you're going to get married?? You say

...but you've been having the best time now FOR A WEEK.
I'm happy you've resolved things but maybe give it a bit longer before jumping into marriage - marriage isn't some kind of magic glue that fixes everything or shows that everything is okay now. I know you've been with this guy a long time but it just seems a bit soon to jump from the original post in this thread above, to getting hitched.

Maybe just give it a little longer to let the dust settle?

True Ian, marriage doesn't always resolve problems, a very romantic gesture though!