Is my best friend gay

[Alvin]

Don't spoil what you guys have as a friendship. When I was 18 I told my best friend I loved him. I hardly saw him after that.

Sorry to hear that. I've had the same tragedy back in high school. However, I think at least by telling him, I know that guy was not worthy of my love or friendship since he wouldn't even talk to me.

In comparison, I told a straight friend that I liked him years ago. He didn't overreact and say that he was flattered. Now we are still great friends and talk to each other regularly. I think that's what friends are for.