Instant crushes

[Alvin]

Well for me it is, it's unique.

I've been sexually attracted to people at first sight. And I've developed emotional attachments to people over time.

But I've never been so completely drawn to a perfect stranger.

It wasn't love, it wasn't love
It was a perfect illusion (perfect illusion)
Mistaken for love, it wasn't love
It was a perfect illusion (perfect illusion)
...
dilated, falling free in a modern ecstasy
...
It was a perfect illusion
Somewhere in all the confusion
You were so perfect
You were a, you were a perfect illusion

The song pops up in my mind when I'm reading your post.
Maybe it's a perfect illusion?