Relationship Advice?

[meridannight]

He knows you're gay. If he wants something with you, he knows he can get it.

My advice, just from reading all that -- is, let it be. At least for now. It's nowhere near anything definable. Even at the small chance that he wants something to develop between you, he is just as likely to freak out if anything less ambiguous does develop.

Whatever happens, happens. The two of you living together will have plenty of chances to make whatever underlying emotions surface between you two, if they are there. You'll get a better read on him when you're sharing a flat with him.

And there's a chance that he's just more comfortable with you, now that you've told him you two are just friends. Men need emotional connection with other people and other men, whether they are straight or gay. It strikes me odd how many people don't realize this, or underappreciate its importance.

He's more comfortable with you. That's a good thing. Enjoy it. If something does develop, you'll know it, and you'll have to take it from there. For now, let it be as it is.



That's my opinion.