Relationship Advice?

[drobs]

Maybe I missed it when I read your post... I take it he's not gay or has said he's not gay?
The cuddling thing rings my gadar. Strangely enough I've experienced that with what I thought were straight guys - I probably missed the cues though.

I had Croation co-worker in Iraq (married to a woman w/kids) that would frequently cozy up to me on van rides - knees and legs touching when there was plenty of room and no need to get that close. Maybe that's a European thing?

I never pursued it / him. We shared a bathroom were, neighbors in the CHU's, on base in Iraq. I rarely saw him outside of work. He would be skyping his wife for hours and hours in the evenings.

I've posted it here before but I have a decent gay friend who I found attractive but quickly made it clear he had no interest in me other than friendship after our 1st date. We're on again off again friends now. He lives in another state and other than facebook we really don't have much contact. We used to meet for drinks frequently + would sober up at a bath house in Chicago after a night drinking.

Sometimes it's nice to just have attractive gay friends.