05-18-2022, 02:04 AM
Regretfully,, many people choose to elaborate a bit too much about who they want you to think they are, instead of who they actually are,,, when on dating apps or sites.. Weight, height, color, education, affluence, age, etc. is sometimes misrepresented.
When you ask to meet them, they have to bow out because they have fabricated too much about themselves and don't want to admit it... They actually put themselves into a corner that they cannot get out of,, so they stop communicating with you..
This is pretty much harmless pretending on their part, but it doesn't help them or you find a partner...
There is no cure for this activity,, all people want to put-their-best-foot-forward, and often exaggerate the truth..
It's probably best to ask to meet them within the first week... That way you don't get to attached, and they won't have time to turn themselves into Superman....
When you ask to meet them, they have to bow out because they have fabricated too much about themselves and don't want to admit it... They actually put themselves into a corner that they cannot get out of,, so they stop communicating with you..
This is pretty much harmless pretending on their part, but it doesn't help them or you find a partner...
There is no cure for this activity,, all people want to put-their-best-foot-forward, and often exaggerate the truth..
It's probably best to ask to meet them within the first week... That way you don't get to attached, and they won't have time to turn themselves into Superman....
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