08-24-2009, 11:37 AM
At some point you are going to have to take control. I don't see how anything is going to work out while you let all this stuff control you. Of course, when it comes to control, the only things over which you have a chance are your own actions and, in the longer term perhaps, your own feelings.
Your very needy behaviour is one thing that will eventually exhaust him and he will have to push you away for the good of his own health.
People have already suggested strategies for helping you do this.
Good luck. It's never easy to face our demons.
Your very needy behaviour is one thing that will eventually exhaust him and he will have to push you away for the good of his own health.
People have already suggested strategies for helping you do this.
Good luck. It's never easy to face our demons.