11-17-2009, 02:04 PM
Labelling can be empowering for someone who knows what they are and fully accepts it. I think for someone who is “confused about his sexuality” the labels can become part of the problem. I didn't invent the label “gay” and for a while I had a problem with it. I had a boyfriend who didn't like gay bars – he had never been in one! So I took him to another town and we just went into a bar without me saying that it was gay. Naughty? He loved it.