Confused about my sexuality

[Lee]

I'm not sure if I am confused about my sexuality or not. I know I like women and then, I started to like men since me and a friend were "playing" with each other in our early teen years. I'm just more nervous when it comes to men. I guess, its because I'm not out of the closet about my sexuality. Sometimes, I think its wrong for a man to like another man. Then, there are times where it doesn't matter to me. I guess, if you like the person. You should go for it

First thing i would say, which im sure has been said thousands of times before, but is very important, is dont try and label your self. People are often confused, not because they dont know what they like, but they dont know what label they fit into best. Think of sexuality as fluid, it doesnt have to be one or the other.

You could be more nervous with men for a number of reasons, partly because you sometimes 'dont think its right'. This may be completley wrong, but i imagine that is to do with how you were raised, and your parents expecting you to get married and have kids etc like the 'normal' family. Society is starting to move on, and you need to move on yourself, and accept that it isnt wrong, its perfectly normal! you are completely right when you say if you like someone then go for it! You may find you are more nervous with men because i imagine you have had less experiences with men?

Lee :biggrin: